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Relationship as a Spiritual Path

Ignite Intimacy &
Deeper Presence
Make a quantum leap in your personal and relational life in three days vs three decades...with a braid of traditional Tantric wisdom teachings & profound practices, psychotherapeutic power tools, meditation and a privately coached MDMA medicine journey.

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 Like No Other Retreat in the World 

We weave together:​

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  • Classic Tantra & traditional wisdom teachings

  • Modern psychotherapeutic tools

  • Privately guided MDMA medicine ceremony

  • 40 Years of expertise in couples work & Zen practice

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​​Harmonizing together spirituality, sexuality, and shamanic work for radical and unparalleled deepening - to help you re-discover your best and highest self.

THE ESSENCE OF OUR RETREAT

This small exclusive retreat limited to only 6 couples offers the ideal opportunity to re-ignite your intimacy.

Sacred Transformation/
Embodiment/Union

  • Experience profound relationship shifts in days vs decades

  • Access ancient Tantric wisdom combined with modern therapeutic tools

  • Journey together through guided medicine work in a safe, private setting

  • Rediscover your highest self, individually and as a couple

Deeper Connection & Intimacy

  • Learn practical tools for conflict-free communication

  • Master the language of touch and presence

  • Experience traditional Tantric practices that ignite heart connection

  • Develop daily rituals for sustained intimate connection

Luxurious Immersion

  • ​Escape to a private paradise on Mexico's Pacific coast

  • Enjoy curated gourmet meals that awaken the senses

  • Individual attention due to small size group

  • Balance deep work with peaceful relaxation and integration

Take advantage of both the most ancient and advanced spiritual technologies, including traditional Tantra, sophisticated couples work, collaborative trance, and other practices from Mystery traditions as we immerse ourselves in the most beautiful villa with sea views.

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All the practices and teachings will meet you exactly where you are and invite you into deeper harmony and more profound connection.

What to Expect

ANCIENT WISDOM & MODERN ALCHEMY

Each day we will curate a mix of sessions that address the specific needs and desires of the group and of your partnership.

Our wide spectrum of tools, practices, teachings, and meditations will support deep, embodied intimacy and connection.

Relationship Alchemy

  • The Psychology of Selves
    (Voice Dialogue/Inner Parts Work)

  • Intimacy-deepening practices

  • Byron Katie’s The Work

  • Relational meditation

Tantric Teachings & Practices

  • Traditional Tantric Philosophy

  • Tantra Yoga

  • Tandava - core traditional practice

  • Neo Tantric Practices such as connection, touchwork & energywork

  • Breathwork & Movement

  • Meditation

Shamanic Medicine Journey

  • Private, guided MDMA journey in your own suite

  • Expert support throughout from both facilitators

  • Preparation and integration support

  • Optional plant allies for deeper relaxation

  • Carefully crafted setting for optimal experience

  • Combines traditional ceremony with modern medicine work

“Alexandra’s sessions are incredibly powerful. She activated a deep part of me that had been dormant for so long, a part that was waiting to erupt and emerge! With every session I feel more alive! How blessed!” - Bella

 

“Our retreat with Jonathan changed the whole trajectory of our relationship in the most wonderful direction. From helping us bring down the walls between us, to discovering much greater and deeper intimacy, which we've sustained." - W. Cole

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The Experience

OVERVIEW

  • An intimate sacred container limited to 6 couples

  • 5 days of profound transformation and awakening

  • A luxurious private villa overlooking the wild Pacific

  • Sensually awakening gourmet meals that nourish body and soul

  • Deep personal attention to your unique journey​​

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Journey Flow

Day 1: ARRIVAL & AWAKENING INTO PRESENCE

  • Arrive to expansive ocean views and welcome drinks

  • Gather for our first feast of locally-sourced delicacies

  • Evening temple gathering for intention setting and heart-opening practices

  • Settle into the peaceful rhythms of paradise

Day 2: RETURN TO SELF & SACRED CONNECTION

  • Immerse in ancient Tantric teachings that ignite your inner wisdom

  • Learn practices that support your self-discovery and presence

  • Evening Temple Night - a sacred ritual exploring desires, needs, and deeper realms of intimacy

  • Experience rich Tantric practices that inspire trust and ignite your heart connection

Day 3: DEEPENING INTO LOVE

  • Begin with gentle Tantra Yoga to resource your nervous system

  • Master powerful tools for conflict-free communication

  • Explore the art of conscious touch and presence through guided practices

  • Evening sacred medicine journey in the privacy of your suite, with full support from Jonathan & Alexandra

Day 4: SACRED UNION & CELEBRATION

  • Free morning to integrate - make love, swim in the ocean, or simply be together

  • Afternoon gathering to harvest insights and embody sacred union practices

  • Final feast celebrating our journey together with all senses awakened

  • Optional private time with your Beloved

Day 5: ANCHORING THE MAGIC

  • Final immersion in core practices

  • Sacred circle to share wisdom and future visions

  • Ritual ceremonies to anchor your intentions

  • Depart forever transformed, carrying ancient wisdom into your modern love

Every aspect of this retreat is an invitation.There is no obligation and there will be different levels offered to ensure that you feel comfortable, whilst also exploring and expanding. At no point is public nudity required.

We hold the utmost respect for your partnership & all activities will honor this.

BENEFITS

  • Learn ancient Tantric teachings that will support you in your daily life

  • Obtain deep insight and understanding

  • Up-level your communication skills to reduce conflict & improve connection

  • Dramatically elevate your love

  • Discover your relationship's higher purpose

  • Join other couples for mutual support and inspiration for years to come

  • Create a richer, more fulfilled life

  • Open your heart and connect through the magic of an MDMA medicine journey

  • Release unproductive patterns

Location

San Pancho, a hidden beach town on Mexico's Pacific coast, offers what Tulum and Playa del Carmen had decades ago—unspoiled beauty without the crowds. Its endless white beach, surrounding jungle, and authentic town center host family restaurants, local shops, and a diverse, friendly community. Here, children play freely, locals walk barefoot, and the laid-back lifestyle recalls a simpler time. But don't spread the word—residents prefer to keep this paradise a secret.

EXCLUSIVE PARADISE

Villa Papelillos is a luxurious private estate, a fabulous dream in the middle of the jungle. It has dramatic views of the wild Pacific and is a 20-minute walk to a remote, white-sand beach off which whales sometimes play. It is completely private and invisible to the world outside.​​

  • 8 luxurious bedroom suites

  • Infinity pool overlooking the ocean

  • Expansive gardens for practice

  • Private beach access

  • Meditation spaces

  • Gourmet kitchen

  • Multiple gathering areas

AMENITIES

  • Daily housekeeping

  • High-speed wifi

  • Air conditioning

  • Private chef

  • Pool service

  • Garden sanctuaries

  • Massage services available

GETTING HERE

  • 45 minutes from Puerto Vallarta International Airport (PVR)

  • Private transport arranged

  • Assistance with travel planning

  • Local logistics support

FOOD

Our in-house chef will prepare luscious meals with locally sourced ingredients & flavors. Food that is fresh, delicious, and ignites all the senses. Expect fresh fish, colorful vegetables, fresh salads, meat dishes & scrumptious desserts.

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WHAT'S INCLUDED

$9900 per couple

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  • 4 nights accommodation

  • 3 daily delicious and nutritious meals

  • 2 Tantric Transmission sessions per day

  • 1 assisted MDMA guided private journey between you are your partner

  • Daily yoga/movement & meditation class

  • Specialized rituals & Temple evenings to drop into deeper intimacy with your partner

  • Water, tea, coffee served throughout the day

  • Wifi connection

  • Pre and post retreat support from our team

  • Parking

  • Luggage storage

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Your Facilitators

Jonathan

Alexandra 

Jonathan is devoted to love as the ultimate path and relationship as the ultimate teacher. He has trained extensively in trance, shamanic practices, meditation, and plant medicine journeys. He also co-created unique practices for couples to deepen their connection at home. A graduate of NYU’s School of Social Work, he mentored closely with many of the world's foremost pycho-spiritual teachers, including H.W.L. Poonjaji, Ramesh Balsekar, Byron Katie, and Hal & Sidra Stone. Katie encouraged Jonathan to make a major film about The Work. The Stones invited him to assist with their teaching.

Alexandra is a Tantric shamanic practitioner and lover of life. She combines both the lineages of Tantra & Shamanism to offer a unique set of services, delivering profound results to her clients. She has studied multiple yogic traditions and practices, Shamanism, breathwork, Reiki, other energy work, de-armoring, bodywork, and has trained with various mystery schools. Her work is deeply influenced by her endless devotion as a teacher and eternal student of Kashmiri Shaivism and the Egyptian Mystery teachings. Chronically ill for eight years, Alexandra shares the wisdom and teachings that brought her back to life.

Alexandra & Jonathan hold multiple polarities

  • Female and Male

  • Younger and Elder

  • South African-European and American

  • Ancient and contemporary practices

  • Personal and cosmic love

FAQs

What experience level is needed? No prior experience with Tantra, meditation, or medicine work is required. Our teachings meet you exactly where you are. Whether you're new to this work or have years of practice, the retreat is designed to support your unique journey and relationship. All practices are offered as invitations, with different levels available to ensure your comfort while gently expanding your edges.

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How is privacy maintained during the retreat? We hold the utmost respect for your partnership and personal boundaries. While we create a warm community atmosphere, all intimate practices are done privately with your partner. The medicine journey takes place in the privacy of your own suite. There is never any public nudity, and all activities honor the sanctity of your relationship. You always choose your level of participation and sharing.

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Tell us about the medicine journey and safety protocols: The MDMA ceremony is conducted with the highest safety standards and care. You'll receive:

  • Private guidance from both facilitators

  • Medical screening beforehand

  • Detailed preparation information

  • Your own private suite for the journey

  • Regular check-ins and support

  • Integration guidance

  • Optional plant allies for relaxation

  • A completely legal and safe setting All medicine work is optional and handled with the utmost discretion and care.

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What should we bring? We'll provide a detailed packing list, but essentials include:

  • Comfortable clothing for practices

  • Swimming attire

  • Journal and pen

  • Any personal meditation items

  • Light layers (evenings can be cool)

  • Ceremonial/special outfit for celebration night The villa provides all linens, towels, and yoga mats.

 

What are your payment & cancellation terms?

  • A 50% deposit secures your place

  • Full balance due 60 days before retreat

  • Cancellations 90+ days prior: full refund minus $500 processing fee

  • Cancellations 60-89 days prior: 50% refund

  • Cancellations less than 60 days: no refund unless we can fill your spot

  • We strongly recommend travel insurance to cover unexpected changes

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Can we attend if one partner is unsure? Yes, many couples come with different levels of openness or experience. We create a safe container where both partners can move at their own pace. There's no pressure to participate in any activity that doesn't feel right for you.

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