Our Sensual Evenings are centered around
WHOLENESS & WHOLESOME-NESS
In a world where connection and touch is wrought with fear and hyper vigilance, we endeavour to create a sacred and safe place to connect more to yourself & find belonging in a body - having a human experience that is ultimately Divine.
To nurture your relationship with your body.
To remember more truth through the mirror of others.
To allow yourself to feel nourished & held.
A place where you are welcomed just as you are.
To come together in community - to feel connected.
WHAT TO EXPECT
We are honoured to have created these spaces almost monthly for the last 4 years .
Each Evening is different and unique - always designed to resonate with who is there and what is truly alive in the space. Infused with different themes and tones.
Here below is an overview to what to expect, but I recommend booking a curiosity call with me, Alexandra Diepering or Simona if you have more questions x For deeper enquiries - I also offer a discounted Discovery Call to explore your background and personal story and support you to find the perfect space to begin.
Traditional tantric teachings & practices
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Movement & Breathwork to get you into body, awaken your life force energy.
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Traditional Tantric philosophy & transmission
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Heart opening activations to dissolve barriers and expand your capacity for love
Authentic Connection & Presence
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Learn to connect without judgment, attachment to outcomes, or performance - simply be present with yourself and others
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Learn to tap into the subtle energies and cultivate deep listening skills that honor both spoken and unspoken communication
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Practice expressing your truth and feeling seen, and providing this sacred space of attention for others
Desire, Expression & the art of Receiving
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Learn to feel into what you truly desire beyond conditioning and expectations
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Explore expressing your desires & needs with more clarity and confidence
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Learn to receive - practice asking and then allow yourself to truly open and receive
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Undo patterns of over-giving and people-pleasing
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Embody your worthiness to be cherished and honored
Conscious Touch & Exploration
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Conscious touch work where everything is an invitation and consent is sacred
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Practice full presence when you give and receive touch
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Space for play, fun, curiosity, and authentic self-expression
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Opportunities to kiss your edges and expand your comfort zone with gentle courage
Sacred Container & Safety
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We will touch on boundary & consent work (This is not however not the focus - if you need support with learning boundaries or have any doubts, please book a session with Alexandra beforehand)
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Clear agreements and a held space of non-judgment and confidentiality
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Integration time to anchor your experiences and insights
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Aftercare support - we are available during the event at any time as well as after, recognising the importance of integration and ongoing support
Our Sensual Evenings are designed to be a safer, sacred space where you can explore, express, and expand into more of who you truly are - both cosmically infinite and beautifully human.
This is a strictly sober event.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
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Anyone who is curious and wants to deepen their relationship with THEIR OWN sensuality.
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Couples welcome (you can work together or work with others)
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Singles welcome - you will be partnered on the eve - we rotate partners often so you will get to know many souls in the community :)
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If you have questions or curiosities - book a free 15min curiosity call with Alexandra or Simona.
Next Sensual Evening
Pure Senses
An evening where every sense becomes a portal to your becoming.
Where what you touch, hear, see, breathe and savour
becomes an invitation to arrive more fully into yourself,
into this ever present moment.
A safe, held space to be delighted -
for your Soul to be captivated
by this precious human experience.
Fully facilitated by Alexandra Diepering, Tantric teacher and Egyptian Mystery facilitator, and hosted by S.O.L.O's Simona Ferrari.
A glimpse inside:
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Tantric philosophy. Breath. Movement. Gentle touch. Community.
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Genuine authentic connection in a time where we crave feeling belonging.
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A haven to feel held in your human-ness, sensing, feeling, allowing yourself to be who you are.
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An evening that inspires expansion but does not force or push.
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A sanctuary to open up to the delights and wonders of being alive.
Beginner or advanced, the practices meet you exactly where you are.
Singles & Couples welcome.
Bring your friend tickets available.
New men - please schedule an application call with Simona or Alexandra.
18 March
7:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Habitus Cape Town CBD
R880 per person | R1600 for two
Our sensuality is a portal for us to be more present.
Here and now.
Through our senses and heightening our capacity to feel, to receive, to tune in to the subtle whispers. We can then co-create more easily & in flow with reality/The Universe/ Spirit & with each other.
These sessions allow us space to practice, to refine our senses so that we can go out in the world and create the life we so deeply Desire.
A space that invites you to awaken
more intimacy with yourself.
Connect with your HEART,
deepen your relationship with your BODY,
and awaken the LIFE FORCE energy that lives within you.
Through Ancient TANTRIC PHILOSOPHY and breath, movement & connection practices,
you'll feel more alive, embodied, and free.
You'll remember that your body holds its own intelligence.
That it is safe to feel.
That all of you is welcome.
Exploring FAQs
The Sensual Evenings are unique, never the same as the one before, because you & the group dictate how the evening flows. We start with sharing & INTENTION SETTING, feeling into the group constellation & individual needs. Based on this, practices are curated with HEART OPENING as the starting point. To open ourselves to the tender & soft spaces within us to allow another in - How deep you want to reveal yourself is up to you. We then explore partner exercises and CONNECTION PRACTICES. Everything is an invitation and learning to feel the BODIES WISDOM of a yes & no is an important part of navigating this in a way that feels safe & comfortable.
Exploring CONSCIOUS TOUCH is a wonderful tool of self exploration and opening up to asking for what you DESIRE. Touch can mean simply holding a hand or going into deep embrace, you are the pilot of your own journey. There are numerous practices that are shared and time for you to - and I emphasise the word - PRACTICE. We are all here to learn and to support each other in a DEEPER AWAKENING.
Lastly & also sooooo important is PLAY. This is a space to be curious, to explore, to play - to allow yourself to have fun and experience PLEASURE. Demystifying that pleasure is often attached to sexuality, but expanding beyond, and yet also not excluding our sexuality and rather connecting to its innocence, shedding shadows and allowing yourself to feel your authentic self.
We invite you to switch partners a few times, of course if you come as a couple you are more than welcome to work together for the duration. The idea with partner switching to allow you meet different people and have diverse experiences.
Come dressed in something that makes you feel yummy, comfortable or that ignites your inner fire, that expresses a part of you that yearns to come out and play. Dress is a way that feels good - Layers are great.
If you struggle with your boundaries & saying no, or have suffered any sexual trauma or struggle with your relationship with your sexuality, it is recommended that you have a session with Alexandra beforehand. The intention is to create warm, safe sanctuaries for us all to explore layers of ourselves. Your well-being is of utmost importance & self knowing and care are critical components. There will also be assistants in the room, for any questions or support at any time. Again we are all learning together.
Regarding nudity. There is no requirement for nudity at all, but exploring the revealing of your skin & un-layering the protection is invited should you feel that way inclined. The shame around our body shapes, the need for them to be perfect, the desire to hide, is a big part of our collective consciousness, especially here is South Africa. In these spaces we can practice allowing ourselves to be seen, just as we are. This is heart of the tantric teachings, remembering that we are Divine beings in human bodies, and that every part of us is sacred. Our lumps & bumps, our desires, our shame, our fear, our joy, our pleasure, our rapture.
